This, or something even better
One of the things I’ve learned over the years is that things happen as and when they are supposed to, even when at the time it feels like everything is going wrong and nothing is going according to my own…
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Alignment
Most people are other people
There’s a terrific quote from Oscar Wilde: Most people are other people. Their thoughts are someone else’s opinions, their lives a mimicry, their passions a quotation. What he’s talking about is what people do to themselves in order to fit…
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What are you spending your time on?
There are two components to being, doing and having what you want in life. Number 1 is that you need to know what you want, and Number 2 is putting in the time and effort into the things that will…
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The payoff of listening to your conscience
When you know that you aren’t living your true life – when you are in the wrong career, the wrong relationship, with the wrong friends, or in the wrong location – you can spend all your time and effort looking…
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The Law of Vibration and Resonance
In physics, resonance is the phenomenon in which a vibrating system drives another system on the same frequency to oscillate with greater amplitude. In plain English, this means that if two things are on the same frequency and one begins…
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Recharge vs Reboot
My friend’s phone died. We were on a holiday to Spain and her main tool for keeping in touch with those at home would not recharge. We checked the power source, we tried changing cables and adaptors. Nothing. Her phone…
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Using language to connect
I was travelling through China recently and became very conscious of the need to use the right language – in this case, Mandarin – to connect with the local people, to be understood and to get what I want. The…
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How credible are you?
I can read all the books, watch all the videos, and go to all the seminars that exist about creating wealth, but if my life does not reflect what I’ve read, watched or heard, then I can’t say I know…
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Be open to ‘the how’
One of the things that can hold people back in creating their dream life is the conditions that they place around what it is they want. People can get clear on what they want, but they also place all kinds…
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Walk the talk
I’ve run scores of training sessions and facilitated many workshops for leaders in different companies and across many industries. One of the things that never ceases to both amuse and bewilder me is how leaders consistently fail to correlate the…
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